Love, Fights and The Eternal Drama

 "Love, Fights & The Eternal Drama, Why Are Couples Always Arguing?  

This morning, while I was walking down the road, soaking in the morning chaos, I saw a couple absolutely going at it. Hands flying, dramatic eye-rolls, the whole Bollywood breakup scene playing live in front of me. And no, it wasn’t over something serious like, say, existential crises or world peace it was probably over a “Why didn’t you text back?” situation. Classic.  

I kept walking, but my brain was stuck on The Great Mystery of Couple Fights. Like, why do couples who literally swear they can’t live without each other spend half their time arguing? It’s almost like love and war signed a secret contract to exist together. A paradox wrapped in “I love you, but OMG you annoy me”moments.  

Love is Basically a Full-Time Internship in Arguing

Think about it. The closer you get to someone, the more chances you have to argue about the dumbest things possible.  

"Why did you breathe so loudly?"

"You watched the new episode without me?"  

"That was NOT ‘just a friend.’"

And my personal favorite: "Nothing’s wrong." (Translation: EVERYTHING IS WRONG.)  

Love is weird. It makes you want to spend every waking moment with someone and also scream into a pillow because of them. It’s a 24/7 reality show where even the smallest things can trigger a full-blown season finale.  

Overthinking vs. Underthinking , The Ultimate Clash

If couples had a tagline, it would be: “One person overthinks, the other underthinks, and boom fireworks.” 

 One sends an “Ok.”  

 The other spends the next 30 minutes analyzing if it meant “Ok, I love you” or “Ok, I’m mad at you”or “Ok, we’re breaking up.” 

It’s like one person is solving a Shakespeare tragedy, while the other thinks they’re just texting. And let’s not even talk about the "Why aren’t you listening?"debate, where one person is mentally composing a response, and the other is already planning an "I knew you never cared!"speech.  

If They Fight So Much, Why Do They Stay?

Because, plot twist: arguing means they care. Nobody fights this much with someone they don’t love. They could be yelling about forgotten anniversaries or who ate the last slice of pizza, but at the end of the day, they’ll still send a "Did you eat?"text. That’s the magic of it. Annoyance and affection, war and peace all tied up in the messiest, most beautiful paradox called love.

So yeah, couples fight. A lot. And they’ll keep arguing about the same things for years. But somehow, between the petty fights, the "I hate yous," and the "Ugh, you’re impossible!" they still choose each other. Every. Single. Time. And if that’s not the weirdest, most wholesome love story ever, I don’t know what is.

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